This is one of two posts that I will be doing tonight…….

On my other site, I have a few posts about sadists….and I realized that I missed an important one……check this out…..I warn you, I type long ones sometimes…

Those of you who have read my other blog knwo that I hate sadists. My only pet peeve. For those of you who haven’t, here is the gist of it all.

Sadists are people who benefit or take pleasure in hurting others. Murders, rapists, terrorists, blackmailers, identity thieves, petty thieves, normal thieves, etc……I think you all get the point. I have written numerous posts on how much I hate almost each and every one of those, but now I realize that I missed one, so I am touching on it here.

The one I want to touch on is abusers. It doesn’t matter if it is physical abuse, mental abuse, sexual abuse, social abuse, strictly emotional abuse, or whatever kinds of abuse there can be. Abuse is not discrimatory, but it is blind. These are the kind of people that want to make sure the target of their abuse is under their thumb, make them fear what they don’t think they can control. Those abusers make me sick, but it happens everyday.

They make their target feel as if they have no choice, either for their safety, or the safety of someone they love……and maybe that has something to do with it. Like for example, a person could get abused because of the color of their skin……or even the color of their children’s skin if it might be different than the mother’s. It could be because of people that the target may have hung out with, like a certain social group…and it could even be an outside influence causing it, like someone showing off for their group or posse or however in the hell you want to refer to it as. It all comes down to one thing…..the abuser is doing it because to them it makes them look dominant, look like they are bigger, look like they are in control……by making someone else feel insignificant……..

So what can be done?

Most of the people being abused don’t think there is anything they can do….or they think they deserve it for some reason…….NO ONE deserves that kind of shit….no one……and there is something they can do. They can stand up, or have someone do it for them….protect them……show them a different way…….a guide of sorts…….it can be hard, but it can be done…….

So, some of you are probably wondering why I decided to do this post, how I can talk about something like this? Three reasons. 1) I have a long time friend who has gone through it. 2) I’m fucking sick and tired from seeing it happen to people that don’t deserve it. 3) And I’ve been abused myself. My ex did it to me, mental, social, some physically, and all emotionally….I lost myself. Now that I’ve been away from her, I have regained what I can so far, but I have a long way to go, and the demons and the nightmares still get to me…..images of the things she put me through…..and like a moron, I stayed….and it was the worst fucking thing I could’ve ever put myself through. Now that I am away from her, I have slowly started becoming what I was striving so hard to become….the honorable, respectful, loving, caring person you have all come to know and love…..if it wasn’t for me getting away from the snarling hose-beast, I would’ve become nothing, and sometimes I still feel that I am nothing, but I’m trying. I’m not quite the way I want to be yet, but I am getting there…..and with the proper help, I will be again. But it is all because of the abuse that I endured from her.

Abuse doesn’t need to happen…..any form…..except maybe the rare Hershey’s abuse, where you abuse the usage of milk chocolate…….LOL……but I think you understand what I mean.

No matter if we are black, white, asian, mexican, oriental, native american, gay, straight, bi-sexual, low-class, high-class, middle-class, short, tall, skinny, fat, athletic, or not, famous, unknown, male, female, or maybe in-between…..we all have something in common….we are all human. As long as you have respect for your fellow man or woman, and remember that no one deserves what you wouldn’t want done to youself, then the fact that we are all human will never be forgotten.

And no one deserves to be treated that way, and I will do whatever I can in my own power to help everyone that I can. I gladly would lay down my life for anyone else, as long as they would remember that I did it because I wanted to, and not because I had to…….

I want to know what everyone thinks about all of this……and all you have to do is either drop me a line here(aka leave a comment, or send me an email(my email addresses are on one of my pages…..don’t remember which one), or you can tell me what you think on messenger if you know me personally, or send me an IM anyway if you want to know me personally………I think you get the point…….but I am open to any thoughts and feelings on this….

Thank you to everyone who read it, and I hope to have another post like this soon…..remember……this is only one of two posts for the night…….

Fino ad allora, i miei amici…..
(Until next time, my friends…..)